Episode 12: I’m Not Going to Punish Myself for Your Perspective

Episode Summary

Summary:
In this heartfelt and hilarious episode, Jordan and Vanessa share a real-life airplane encounter that turned into a powerful vibrational breakthrough. What starts as a chaotic travel day with three kids and a grumpy passenger transforms into a deep reflection on emotional sovereignty, conscious parenting, and the law of allowing.

Vanessa reveals the moment she locked in a new life framework:
“I’m not going to punish myself—or my children—for someone else’s perspective.”

Together, they explore how to stay above the green line when others are triggered, how not to fall into defensive or reactive energy, and why your alignment matters more than anyone else’s approval.

Whether you’re a parent, a people-pleaser, or simply navigating tough social interactions, this episode will remind you of your power to hold your vibration steady, choose your perspective consciously, and respond with love, not fear.

Key topics include:

  • How to handle unsolicited judgment in public
  • The trap of defending yourself against someone else’s insecurity
  • The three paths when someone attacks: defend, attack back, or stand in alignment
  • Practicing the Art of Allowing in real-time
  • Emotional growth and honoring the version of you you’ve become

Quote of the episode:
“You can’t say the right thing to the wrong person—and you can’t say the wrong thing to the right person.”

 

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